The Space To Pause

The Space To Pause

If you've hit a ceiling you can't quite name, or money still doesn't feel safe no matter how much work you've done, you're in the right place.

This is where I share my thoughts on money trauma, nervous system patterns, and what safe enough, good enough, and worthy enough actually look like in real life, written for the healthcare professionals and therapists who are brilliant at helping others and still quietly stuck in their own relationship with money.

You're not behind, you're not broken, and you're in exactly the right place here with me.

By Sonia Skewes, Advanced Relational Integrative Practitioner.

Money Therapy

Can therapy help fee guilt? Understand why charging can trigger shame, fear and a freeze response, and how therapy can build steadier self-trust over…Read more
A gentle guide to nervous system money healing for women who feel anxious, avoidant or ashamed around money, and want steadier self-trust with suppor…Read more
You have sent the invoice, and then you cannot quite settle until it is paid. A client offers a genuine thank you and you find yourself explainin…Read more
Most people who have heard of Brainspotting know the basic premise: "where you look affects how you feel". It is a deceptively simple idea, an…Read more
Beyond Basic EMDR: How Relational, Ancestral and Intergenerational Training Changes What's Possible in the Therapy Room When most people hear "EM…Read more
The invoice has been sent, but your chest is tight. You might avoid opening your banking app for another day, even though you are capable, organi…Read more
You can know your work is valuable and still feel sick when it is time to set your fees. Not because you are confused about your worth, and not b…Read more
You can be deeply competent, emotionally literate, clinically trained, and still feel your chest tighten when you open your banking app. You can …Read more
You can understand exactly why you avoid looking at your bank account. You can name the pattern, trace it back to childhood, recognise the nervous sy…Read more

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